Hey Nina.

I have a problem and need your help. I am a gay male who just met a really cool guy. He wants to be friends plus more, and so do I. The problem is he’s married to a woman, and has two kids. His wife is a-ok with him messing around with guys; in fact I’ve talked to her. But I still think it might be a bad idea to get involved. What do you think??

Bi-pole-her

Dear Bi-pole-her,

What are you thinking child? This path you are heading down may lead to ruin. Is that a risk you want to take? Curiosity is one thing, but for god’s sakes child think of the children.

All that out of the way... you should consider this – the couple in question has obviously had lengthy discussions about their sex life and how to spice it up. But are you doing this for yourself as well? Ask yourself what gets your groove on? Perhaps you’re considering this because it is so kinky. Or is it the risk factor? If after much time and consideration you think it’s for you, then have at her. Because this queen wants no part of it!!! I prefer my men unmarried and emotionally available.

Also you should have no misconceptions that there are only three people involved in this ménage e trois. As adults it is our duty behave responsibly. So please be clean, be safe and be responsible and most of all be true to yourself.

Take care,

Nina

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