According to the US National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB) 40% of women and men aged 25 to 49 have engaged in anal sex at some point in their lives. Join renowned sex expert Carlyle Jansen as she blows the covers off what gets in the way of anal pleasure and takes us on a butt play adventure highlighting the benefits of anal pleasure and how more of us could be getting acquainted with our equal opportunity orifice!
Jansen’s latest publication offers all of the information that anyone needs to know to maximize their pleasure and ensure a safe, healthy butt experience. From creative consent to anatomy and safer sex, from beginning to explore in the shower to incorporating butt play into your kink adventures, this new book has you covered.
What makes this book different from other anal sex guides?
For all genders, sexes, pleasures and orientations
Includes detailed techniques for oral, finger/ hand and intercourse pleasure
Tips and information for both novices and advanced anal players
Features many voices including Tobi Hill-Meyer and local Toronto heroes Andrea Zanin, Carey Gray, Jon Pressick, Phillip Coupal, and Samantha Fraser
Some tips from the book:
- Take 10mins on the outside with fingers, tongue or a vibrator before diving in- it feels great and makes the butt relax, trust and hungry for more.
- Once a toy, penis or finger is inside, continue massaging the anus around it. Those nerve endings still appreciate the pleasure and it will help keep you relaxed.
- Try circles around with a finger to the first knuckle rather than just in and out. Most of the anal nerve endings are within the first inch inside.
- Bringing your knees towards your chest will usually make penetration easier.
- IT SHOULD NOT BE PAINFUL. Pain is an indication that you need to change something that you are doing. Listen to your butt.
- Angle a toy or penis towards the belly button once inside to better stimulate the prostate or perineal sponge.
- Don’t worry if you and/or a partner lose their erection during butt play. The focus has just shifted to another erogenous zone.
