Dear Nina,
I really don’t know what to do. HELP! Sometimes in life we think that we’ve met the love of our life, but then it all goes terribly wrong. That’s how it is with Charlie (not her name). I thought I would love and be with her forever. But our one and a half month relationship turned out to be wild sex and non-stop arguing. It ended badly with her cheating on me and me wanting to be with someone else. I don’t understand why Charlie wants to be around me since she doesn’t love or care, and I definitely think that I am average; nothing special so why want me. But I tried to remain friends with her regardless. I started dating someone just two weeks later and we have been together for over a year. I try to be friends with Charlie, but she and my girlfriend don’t get along. Now there are verbal fights in the bar, people’s cars have been trashed, and worse is that it makes all involved look juvenile. This situation is between Charlie, my girlfriend and me - no one else. Yet, I try to support my girlfriend, and also understand Charlie’s point of view, but in the end I get blamed for it all because I don’t stick up for the right side. I will always care for Charlie but I love my Girlfriend. What do I do? Or is there any help for me?
- No More Crazy Monkeys!
Dear Monkey’s Lunch,
Sounds to me like you should really ditch the BITCH who lied and cheated on you!! She stirred up SHIT in your life while you were together and now she sees you happy with someone else and, guess what, she can’t have you. But she can certainly make your life hell AGAIN!! Be thankful you have what you do in your current relationship, for it is what most of us desire. After a year you must agree when I say that you now have the real deal, you lucky girl!
Life is a big game and it sound to me like you and your current girlfriend have won the lottery in relationships any ways! Don’t waste time on people who can’t and/or won’t invest their real emotion or feelings into you. Get real, love is a fleeting thing much like the air we breathe, so take what you got and distance yourself from those who resent the gift you possess. Keep the faith my darling, and remember that crazy feeds crazy, so DON’T FEED THE CRAZY PEOPLE!!
Yours truly,
Nina Tron
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