These days, if you can run, you can raise funds. Every weekend, it seems, there are road races to cure breast cancer, build schools in impoverished African villages, and do just about every other good deed imaginable. Fundraising races are impressive affairs, complete with corporate sponsors, water stations and gushing publicity.
When Chris Mosier decided to run to raise money, though, he did it alone. The decision seemed apt. He was running to support homeless LGBT teenagers, and few populations are as lonely as that.
Chris’s run earlier this month – 35.6
miles, a loop around the entire perimeter of Manhattan – benefited the Ali
Forney Center. A shelter and drop-in center offering food, showers, clothing,
medical care, and mental health and substance abuse services to thousands of
youngsters annually, it was destroyed by Hurricane Sandy. Flood waters from the
Hudson River demolished computers, office equipment, refrigerators and food.
Chris was never homeless himself. But
the plight of teenagers cast out of their families – then left to battle for
survival, at the same time trying to figure out who they are and where they fit
into the world – resonated deeply.
As a girl growing up near Chicago, she
played team sports. She always knew on some level she did not fit society’s
expectations of gender, but she did not have the vocabulary to express what she
felt.
Even in college, Chris says, "I didn’t
know about the LGBT community. I was oblivious to it, and to any kind of
self-awareness."
About 10 years ago though, Chris finally
met some transgender people. Gradually, that self-awareness grew.
Chris moved to New York and began a
career in higher education. Chris identified as "queer," and played on men’s
softball teams.
But Chris also ran and bicycled on teams
and in events as a female. "I delayed my transition because of sports," Chris
says. "I did well as a woman, and wondered how competing as a man would affect
things. I wear Spandex. I’m in very body-conscious sports. Being an athlete was
an important part of my identity, and I had a lot of questions"
Those worries proved groundless. Chris
was accepted quickly during and after his transition. He’s spent the last five
years competing in road races and triathlons, and serves as a coach and
ambassador for the Empire Triathlon Club and Team Aquaphor.
Like many members of New York’s LGBT
community, Chris had heard of the Ali Forney Center. As he learned of its
devastation during the hurricane – and saw other destruction while running in
local parks – Chris vowed to help.
As vital as its work is, Ali Forney is
only a drop in the bucket. There are an estimated 3,800 homeless youth in New
York, Chris says. Forty percent are LGBT. The center provides only 250 beds.
Still, it’s something.
"I don’t have the money to get Ali
Forney back on its feet myself. But I could raise a little bit," Chris says.
"And if I raised awareness, too, that might lead to something."
He chose a date – Dec. 1 – and spent
three weeks spreading the word via social media. Donors could contribute any
amount; suggestions included $32 (a dollar for every mile he figured he’d run),
$50 (a dollar for every kilometer), or whatever else anyone wanted.
He also gathered prizes to raffle off to
contributors.
Chris started and finished at the United
Nations. And he started and finished alone.
"A lot of teammates and friends offered
to join," he notes. "But it was important for me to do this by myself."
He wore no headphones; he just ran, and
reflected. At one point he stopped at the Staten Island Ferry Terminal to warm
his hands. "I realized, if I was homeless I couldn’t just do that," he says.
"I’d have to really think about things like where I could use the bathroom." He
carried a bit of food, but dropped some along the way. "If I was homeless,
losing that food would have meant a lot more."
Chris’ run took 5 hours and 18 minutes.
He felt pretty good until Mile 25. At Mile 30, he really started to feel the
effects. But – like homeless youth with no other options – he kept going.
When it was over, he had an hour to
shower, and get to work.
The Ali Forney Center had no idea who
Chris was. They still might not. That’s not the point, he says. "This isn’t
about me. It’s about getting the word out, and helping an organization that
helps kids who need help."
Chris continues to get the word out. And
he continues to accept donations. The website is http://www.aliforneycenter.org/.
Search there for "Mosier" and give what you can.