
Gypsy Boy: My Life in the Secret World of the Romany Gypsies

Through the Door of Life: A Jewish Journey Through Genders
Gypsy Boy: My Life in the Secret World of the Romany
Gypsies, by Mikey Walsh. St. Martin’s Press, 288 pages, $24.99 hardcover.
Before he was five, Mikey’s dad was bruising his body with
brutal punches, dreaming that his boy might one day recapture the Gypsy
bareknuckle fighting championship long held by the family. By the time he was
six, the lad was being raped on weekends by an uncle, a terror that went on for
several years. He found scant solace with his He-Man action figures – for which
his father whipped him – and temporary escape from a mean life when he was able
to watch The Wizard of Oz with his mother. As he neared puberty, the author
knew he was gay, a secret he kept to himself, though his father called him a
"poof" and even his beloved sister turned against him. At 15, he fell in love
with a 25-year-old bartender (who thought the boy was 20), and ran away with
him – only to have his father and uncles hunt the man down and beat him
repeatedly. Horrific as it is, though, this memoir and the glimpse it offers
into secretive Gypsy life in England is also a celebratory story of queer
survival.
Through the Door of Life: A Jewish Journey Through
Genders, by Joy Ladin. University of Wisconsin Press, 272 pages, $26.95
hardcover.
Poet Ladin brings elegance and eloquence to this memoir, by
turn painful and joyous, of change from man to woman, from a suicidal
"nonexistence" to an emerging embrace of life. Not sure that the Joy she is to
become can return to Yeshiva University – an orthodox Jewish campus – where
Jay, in his 40s, taught literature for several years, Ladin nonetheless
embarked on her transition. Her wife was distraught and soon ready to divorce,
and her children were initially more furious than curious, distant and
difficult, determined to hang on to "Daddy" and wary of the woman he was
becoming. Ladin doesn’t shy away from the trauma her need to transition inflicts
on her family – or on herself, for that matter; time and again, the author
refers "my gender crisis." But she’s also blessed by her faith, listens to her
inner angels, is buoyed by conversations with God, learns to stop wrestling
with fear and frustration – and eventually comes to love a woman as a woman
loves a woman, not as a man does so.
The Infernal Republic, by Marshall Moore. Signal 8 Press,
226 pages, $15.95 paper.
In "Urban Reef," two ladies lunch placidly while betting
where a suicidal man’s body might land from a high rooftop leap. In
"Metropolitan," a "sartorial Santa-bunny" stuffs dozens and sometimes hundreds
of dollars into clothing-store merchandise. In "The infinite Money Theorem," a
bored demon oversees a bet between Yahweh and Lucifer over whether a hundred
thousand monkeys could in fact type the complete works of Shakespeare in a
hundred thousand years. Of the 17 rather brilliant stories in Moore’s
collection, these represent the lighter fare. Darker and deliciously twisted
are "Flesh, Blood, and Some of the Parts," in which a boy’s parents detach his
arms, and then his legs, when he tries to kill himself; "Marble Forest, Karstic
Heart," in which a young Chinese boy never sleeps – until he becomes as still
as a statue; and (one of the most emotionally unsettling tales) "Town of
Thorns," in which gay lovers drift apart after one is gay-bashed. This is a
terrific collection of divinely amoral stories penned with precision by a
writer who loves language.
Lake on the Mountain, by Jeffrey Round. Dundurn Press, 488
pages, $11.99 paper.
Canadian writer Round packs plenty of plot into this new
mystery series, featuring missing-persons investigator Dan Sharp. He’s a single
father to a precocious 14-year-old boy; as a boy himself he hustled on the
streets of Toronto; and one of his current cases involves finding a teenage boy
involved with porn films. Meanwhile, he’s forever hoping that his affair with a
studly heart surgeon will blossom into more than one-night stands. And, when he
accompanies the surgeon to the gay wedding of the scion of a wealthy WASP
family and his hunky Brazilian boytoy, he’s drawn into both a wedding-party
death and a decades-old missing person case. Round juggles assorted storylines
– and such queer concerns as parenthood, wedding equality, fidelity and teen
prostitution – with aplomb in this blend of plausible sleuthing and often-hot
sex. As a bonus, readers are treated to some nifty travel writing. One of the
mystery’s settings is a 120-foot-deep lake high on a hill, possibly fed by
underground water flowing hundreds of miles – but the water’s source, too, is a
mystery.
Featured Excerpt
I can’t remember when I first realized that I really was
gay. In some ways the knowledge had always been there, deep inside me. But of
course I tried to deny it to myself, desperate not to be the one thing that
would totally destroy me as a Gypsy. But as I approached puberty, I couldn’t pretend
to myself any more. It wasn’t anything to do with what my uncle had done to me,
but knowing that he too was attracted to the same sex left me feeling even more
cursed. I lived every day, hating myself for being a freak among Gypsies.
Although my father called me a poof every day, if he thought it was true,
he...would almost certainly kill me.
– from Gypsy Boy, by Mikey Walsh.
Footnotes
BOOKS TO WATCH OUT FOR: Lillian Faderman, co-author most
recently (with Stuart Timmons) of Gay L.A.), has signed with Simon &
Schuster for Our America Too: The Story of the Struggle for Gay and Lesbian
Rights, history recounted in a "novelistic voice," offering a mosaic of gay
liberation pioneers and of LGBT successes and defeats; it’s being compared to
Taylor Branch’s trilogy chronicling the life of Martin Luther King and African-American
Civil Rights Movement ... THE FOCUS IS MORE NARROW, but queer history is again
the subject, in James Down’s More Than Just Sex, a look at pre-AIDS gay
liberation in the decade after Stonewall and before the plague, coming next
year from Basic Books ... POET CHERYL DUMESNIL, editor of Hitched: Wedding
Stories from San Francisco City Hall, has sold Love Song for Baby X, about
a lesbian couple's struggles with infertility as they attempt to become parents
and set within the marriage equality movement, to Ig Publishing ... TWO
ELDERLY WOMEN, widows and long-time friends who find themselves falling in
love, are featured in two thrillers by Charles Atkins, Vultures at Twilight
and Connecticut’s Best Place to Die; in the first, a May release from Severn
House, the unlikely sleuths are determined to find the rest of the body after a
severed finger shows up during an antiques auction.
Richard Labonte has been reading, editing, selling, and writing about queer literature since the mid-’70s.