Mars in Taurus aspecting Eris in Aries cranks up competitive urges. Be open and flexible. Goals may need adjusting as conditions change.

You could make a lot or spend a lot. The competitive urge could drag you either way and even making money could be more strain than it’s worth. What do you have to prove? To whom? Work as hard as you reasonably can.

Sometimes it’s not easy being the strong, reliable one. People are counting on you, so all the more reason why you need to take care of yourself. Take a break. Relax. You’ll hold up better and accomplish more in the long run.

As much as you love your friends, they can wear you down. Maybe you’re trying too hard to be the star of the party? Enjoy being on the sidelines now and then, or just take some time out. Your real friends will understand.

Friends and colleagues are as eager as you are to see you succeed, but they may be pushing you a little too hard. Keep an eye open to your larger goal, but the trick is still to stay focused on the job at hand.

Remember when to use your indoor voice, darling! The smart actor knows that whispers can get attention where screaming gets ignored. You will be noticed no matter what, but what do they see?

Long, hard and deep is also how you should think about sex. How does it serve in your life? Are you out to prove something? To pursue satisfaction? To forge a deeper bond? The real question: How does it bring you home?

You don’t win or keep a lover by being the best in bed. Open communication keeps love alive. Focus on the small details; be attentive, sexually and otherwise. Being the best mate you can be is not a competitive sport.

At work, remember that you’re part of a team. That means pacing yourself with your colleagues, not dragging so far ahead that you pull the efforts out of whack. Pushing too hard can also be bad for your health.

Pushing too hard at sports or exercise is asking to get hurt. The trick in pushing for a personal best is to expand your limits, not to ignore them. Yes, Saj, even you have limits!

Getting involved with a community arts or sports program can help you clarify where you really belong in the world, what you’ve learned from elders to pass on to future generations, and what you could be doing for the kids.

Arguments with your family can actually help you to plan better for your future. Don’t be shy about speaking up. The trick is in keeping perspective. Sibling rivalry can spur you to better work, but don’t let it affect you too deeply.

It’s too easy for spending and arguments to get out of control. Old habits and family traditions can mire you down, interfering with your success. Keep a clear focus on your goals and act as if your next boss is watching you.