There’s more to Justice Calo
Reign’s uniqueness than his name.
He’s an African-American gay
man who graduated from the United States Air Force Academy. He’s one of only 2
percent of the Cadet population to receive the Commandant’s Award coming out of
basic training, and one of fewer than 2 percent to hold positions of squadron
commander and team captain during the same academic year.
Reign has been both a
football conference champion and a school record holder in track.
A commissioned Kentucky
Colonel – bestowed by the governor – for his work with youth character
development, Reign went on to become CEO of a private foundation. He has worked
with business people and elected officials in Nigeria, the Philippines, Canada,
Thailand and Cambodia.
"I have enjoyed success at
every phase of my life," Reign says. "But I also know what it’s like to enter a
real zone of defeat due to internal issues of my life that distracted me from
using all of my strengths to make this world the best world I can make it."
Which is one reason he is
now a coach – in every sense of the world. His Reign Group seeks to create
"champions" in a wide range of fields, from philanthropy and social
entrepreneurship to sports.
"We at The Reign Group are
on a mission to change the world," his website reads. "We are not interested in
individuals who are satisfied with mediocrity or the status quo. We are
interested in individuals who are willing to train their hearts and minds to
connect fully with their strengths, (and) become Champions in their endeavors."
Reign’s athletic resume is
impressive. As sprints and hurdle coach at the Air Force Academy, he coached
five conference champions, nine NCAA championship qualifiers and three Olympic
trials qualifiers.
At the University of
Louisville, the program reached the NCAA Top 25 for the first time ever. He
recruited eight national champions in two years, and coached athletes to 16
school records.
Currently, he’s working with
one of the top female boxers in the country.
But, he says, life has not
always been a straight run to success. He lost his job at Louisville when he
was outed, he says. "I was told that because (being gay) would show poorly on
the program, I should have let them know ahead of time." He was the target, he
says, of "horrific" voicemail messages and email comments.
"I had just taken freshmen
to the NCAAs. We were training for the world championships," he recalls. "The
whole program I built crumbled. It was very disheartening."
Earlier, a Louisville athlete
had come out to Reign. Between that experience and his own, he says, "I really
see how homophobia is used as a weapon in sports." However, he does not point
to bigotry as the cause. "I think it’s about control – a way to control
people," he says. "It’s used as a recruitment weapon."
In the acceptance of
homosexuality, he says, coaches lag far behind athletes. "If you’re teammates
with someone who’s gay, so long as you do your job, they don’t care."
He points to his own
example. "For a while, I lied," he says. "I told my athletes I wasn’t gay. But
when I finally came out, they said, ‘So what?’ The holdup is in the older
regime’s thoughts about masculinity and femininity. It’s antiquated. Coaches
and administrators, they need to understand the student-athlete’s mind, and get
it."
Through his life
experiences, Reign helps the men and women he coaches "manage their emotional
energy." He had a rough childhood – there was more going on in his Christian,
military, conservative environment than questions of sexuality – but, he says,
"I focused on my strengths. If you have the right mindset, you can deal with
any negative influences." That’s true, he says, whether you’re training for an
upcoming race, a bout in the boxing ring, or asking for money to fund a project.
Gay youth are important to
Reign. "They feel like they’re in a war zone," the Air Force Academy graduate
says. He equates war and sports. Both, he says, are far tougher mentally than
physically.
Much of Reign’s training
centers not on running harder or throwing better combinations of punches, but
on "how to use your strengths to overcome adversity, how to interact with
teammates, how to be a positive person."
Not all of Reign’s athletic
work is with LGBT clients. But, he says, "I do see a certain type of urgency in
them, something that’s not there in others." For LGBT athletes, he says,
"sports performance is almost a way of validating who they are. They’re very
harsh on themselves."
So Reign focuses on "saying
what’s right with them, not what’s wrong." It’s a formula, he says, for
"exponential growth and change."
He’s doing his part to make
sure that, for gay athletes, peak performance will come – and justice will
reign.
Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer coach, gay activist, and author of the "Jocks" series of books on gay male athletes. Visit his website at
http://www.danwoog.com